“He who wants to persuade should put his trust not in the right argument, but in the right word. The power of sound has always been greater than the right sense.” Joseph Conrad

Are you enjoying your feeling state in your relationships? How would you like to feel emotionally and physically when you are in conversation with others? If you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, it is the perfect opportunity get clear on what energy state you desire to experience. It’s an opportunity to shift your energy from feeling small, powerless or defensive to feeling peace, love and empowerment.

I have learned to shift my focus from pleasing others. I had to learn to speak the words that elevate my feeling state, and let go of attachment to what others think of me. Which really is none of my business! I ask myself, “what do I desire to feel when speaking with this person? ”

My intention is to create a state of love, honor, respect and grace in my relationships. To do so, I am committed to elevating my energy so that I am able to walk away from a conversation in my dignity. Do I always do this? NO!

I make mistakes, I get caught up in the emotion of the moment, I get defensive. These moments are wonderful learning opportunities to build resilience, experience self-forgiveness and get clear on the need in me that is not being met. I often expect others to fulfill my needs, consciously or unconsciously. The other person could never really do this is the way that I desire. It is an inside job.

Today allow yourself to be open to the possibilities of experiencing
a different energy state that you have in the past. Speak
consciously, lovingly and elevate your energy state. The conversation
may flow differently as well.

Affirmation: I speak with an open, loving, peaceful heart.

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